快乐人生
哈哈，好久没有打中文字了。。。打起来真有点不习惯。不管怎样 (anyway)，我觉得以下的这个短文很有意思，请大家抽空过目。也许真的能让自己快乐些。是我用心良苦一字一句打出来的哦，保重(take care)！
人生实在没有什么值得痛苦的事，如果我们能够做自己的主人，不论有钱也好，没钱也好，都应该活得非常快乐。
人生的目的究竟是什么？我想第一个就是让自己快乐，第二个则是让其他的人快乐。
如何让自己快乐呢？关键在于得失心不要太重，能得的得，不能得的就不得。不要过度在乎别人的想法，如果你将别人的价值观，变成自己的价值观，那是非常痛苦的一件事。
至于如何让别人也快了呢？我认为物质上所产生的快乐，致使一时间的，精神上所带来的快乐，会比较真实且长久。 如果我们能够让自己快乐，也让其他人快乐，那么大家就等于是生活在人间的天堂里，人间净土就可以达到了。
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pp, my chinese sucks.. but i think ur 'le' is wrong? haha.
anyways, someone care to translate what pp just posted?? i dun get a word.. chim.
i think its quite true... abt the bothering abt what other ppl think part brings misery. true abt the misery in trying to live up to other's expectation.
but its hard not to chap what other ppl thinks, ya?
人间天堂不易触摸得到啊！
but it'll true if everyone can be happy.....
aye... that coming from you is not convincing lor! come from me still more possible. lol.
*dances around* i'm happy! ^__^
自欺欺人的人才会向往所谓的人间天堂。人生本是苦，最重要的是要懂得苦中作乐，
自得其乐。要来的总会来，担忧也无助于事。用心，为自己的信念付出。就算到最
后会跌的遍体鳞伤，笑容仍是灿烂的，得到的或失去的就当作是一次经验，继续走
下去！
迷希忠言：相信自己，看风使舵，随机应变！要幸福！ ^___^
lol! looks like i started the chinese rave ha. anyway, my friend once gave this phrase to me and cause i was a sailor, i was supposed to understand the meaning more. and it really applied in life's hardest times...
既然不能左右风的方向，那就调整船的风帆
yup, so no matter how stressed we may be during this period (ebi, leney), and no matter how sucky our timetables may be (wen, joen), let's go through all this together! =)
hur i catch no ball -_-"
eh pp my friend was asking me, tj sailing the girls suck is it? lol.
my chinese sucks too... but since i'm bored now, i shall translate loosely/summarise for lene..
小妹我献丑了。。。
"haha, long time no type cheena words. type until really abit not used to it. anw, i think the following passage is very meaningful, please read if u are free. maybe it can really make u a little happier. its type written painstakenly by me(pp) wor! take care!
in life, nth is worth suffering for. if we can take charge of our life, no matter in rags or in riches, we can live happily.
whats the goal in our lives? firstly, make ourselves happy. secondly make others happy.
how to make self happy neh? the crux is not to be a pessimist. be glad abt what u have in life and dun brood over what u dun have. heck care abt what others think. there will be great suffering and misery if u adhere and follow the values and opinions of others, making their values and opinions your own.
and then, how to let other ppl be happy neh? happiness generated by tangible materials can only last so long. happiness generated by one's spiritual inner self can, not only last longer, but is also more real.
if we can achieve the 2 goals of making self and others happy, we'll be living in shangri-la, achieving utopia."
idealistic... too good to be true.
woots. you're good. hee thanks dear =p
(now i can comment with relevance)
agreed. but.. realistically we live in a world which doesn't allow us to be able to live that way entirely? however much we may wanna exercise those idealogies, fact remains that we're all running a rat race which, much as we don't wanna be part of, has the implication that we've got to meet certain fundamental expectations.
but i agree with pp.. whatever difficulties we're facing.. let's all jia you together! =)
lol. nice translation ebi. esp the neh part. lol..i thought that was pretty farnie. ha.
leney: hmm... ok ba. but the guys are more willing to train, compete and improve ba. ha..
orh okie.. cos my friend told me tt the tj team seems to train very hard.. yet at comp the girls didn't do very well..
anyway i believe in making myself happy.. and pple who matter to me happy thats all. fullstop. sometimes caring too much for others is a total waste of time. esp in sch where backstabbers are SCATTERED ALL OVER THE PLACE. guan ta de. wo gao xing jiu hao.
really? who's ur friend? a sailor too?
anyway wen why you like yuan4 qi4 so heavy..ha..care to share?
lol PP trying to be Uncle Agony. but i agree with what wennie says.
poly sounds like as though it alr has a dose of office politics infused into it.
i realised ever since i entered jc, i've been =( almost all the time. unknowingly, i've kind of transformed into oscar the ultra grump..
have just decided a few days ago, with my cousin, that we'll all be happy people and not sweat the small stuffs! just started on this tiny journal to write down all the happy stuff that happen in the day, instead of complaining of stuff...
the catch: i can't seem to be able to fill the lines.
pp: my friend's not even a sailor.. rj got her to take part cos they not enough girls.. and yet she still did ok at the races and even won tj girls. hence the comment.
wen: anything wrong?
no arh.. nothign wrong. but sch life is just liek that loh. its like sec2 all over again but much worse. but you have a choice who you want to be with lah. its like you can see whose the fake and whose the real. so you just mix with real pple who does work loh. alot of politics but just dont get yourself involved loh.
so year 1 is like everybody play ncienice. then year 2 you start to just watching your own ass and the asses of those you care for.. and by year 3.. you cant even see your own ass anymore. LOL no lah by year 3.. you wont even care about anything coz you just wanna grad.
there are alot of pple who dont listen during lecture then go zap pple's notes. they dont listen and make noise.. then pple in front of them cant hear.. and ironically.. they ask the pple in front of them for the notes to zap. what ass. and they will look down on pple who takes notes during lecture. they think that pple who take notes are "nerdy" and "kia su". please lah. who are the losers? pple who takes notes.. or pple who cant even take notes for themselves? bloody ass.
and there are pple who dont do any work then gang up with other members of the group to mark down the only person who did work. pple here have NO conscience and NO feeling of guilt. they dont think that they're wrong and they have super bloody thick skin -- beyond-your-imagination thick.
wah lao i typed so much arh.. looks like one bloody entry lah. and the scary thing is that i can still go on. ass.
ZZZZZZZZZZZ. going sch now.. ZZZ just finished by bloody assignment.
eve.. can help me tell your friends i'm not interviewing them already. thinking about doing food fest.. ZZZZZZZZ
wahsei your school so political one ah? my school not liddat. but i still behave that way anyways. lol.
wen: omg its so political! i tot sec 2 was very bad already... i can't imagine now. stay strong!!
aite i'll tell them abt it.
no lah. i'm not really affected. i dont quite bother actually. not so bo liao to play mind games or politics. i have better things to do. i want to grad with merits loh. and bloody merits in my course is liek top 10 pple of the bloody level lah. ass.
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZ. i'm sian coz of the assignments.. i gave up on the pple already. lol
THanks eveee! *gives you some prawn friends*
well well seems like everyone got their fair share of crap. ha... maybe that's the REAL world out there? different kinds of pple we meet..oh well, shit happens everywhere, and after all, since we gotta shit, so life goes on. therefore, shit = life. ok, sorry no link. anyway...hang in there! wen..at least u finished ur assignment right? so that's sth to be happy about...at least you dun haf tests next week. wth.
学长，写得好！＝）
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